Being beautiful these days isn't about what personality you have, the sports your good at, the people you hang around. It is purely based around your 'looks'. This is where society is getting messed up because as everyone would tell you, 'you have to be attracted to the person to start dating them'. Yes it is half true. But many would say it isn't like that.
Many men and women who have been in a relationship with the same person for more than 50 years can tell you that society has changed in way that portrays social media as the most common source of cause. Social media is a definite yes to the way young females and even young men who are seeing celebrities being all the rage, being beautiful with not one blemish on them in these 'photographs and videos' these day. But being the 21st century many forget the amount of technological resources that are around today. Photoshop is all the rage, and believe it or not, I actually do a core unit on photoshop as being apart of my course. Any one can use it! And this is what is happening. Many celebrities are being put into photoshop to make look beautiful and also are being put into photoshop to look hideous as well! Didn't we all see that Miley Cyrus photo of comparing her butt to that of a chicken body? Yeah well obviously that isn't true because we all watched the MTV awards live, where it really didn't look like that on live TV. So, yes this is an example of looking really bad on photos being photoshopped but there also is the side of photoshop that makes anything look amazing.
Dove has released two campaign videos on youtube now that are wonderful in my eyes! And I absolutely love them. They are amazing for doing this and even thinking of doing this, and if I were able to reach every young woman and man out there and show them these videos I definitely would because it is truly inspiring. Ever since the video was published, Seventeen magazine which is an American based teenage magazine, has made sure that all of their photo shoots that are published are now not photoshopped, and if they are photoshopped, that will be noted on the photo somewhere! This is an amazing thing as well, as it is the first step to helping teenage self esteem levels become normal. As every single person in the world has faults, even if they don't want to admit it, they are there and everyone doesn't need to know about each others faults, but many need to start realising what is on the inside is what counts. Girls are not the only culprits of this dilemma, as many men are also suffering with self esteem issues. Many men are so self conscious of their weight, their hair and even what their girlfriends look like. It shouldn't be the case at all, as this is what is promoting teen suicides all over the world and it is such a horrible thing.
Me being still a young person myself as a part of the Gen Y. I see it everyday, being involved in the fashion world it is the most critical place and career you can ever wish for. But I do it because I love it. Yes when I was younger I was always wondering how come celebrities are always looking so glamorous and beautiful, and why can't I. I was always looking up celebrities tips for hair, make-up and skin products you name it. But I would always try these things they were saying and nothing would ever work. It wasn't until I did get a bit older that I actually realised these celebrities are loaded with money and can actually get any surgery they wanted to look beautiful and also had many professional working for them that were able to photoshop the photographs that we see today in everyday magazines.
I know I can't change the way everyone thinks about themselves or the way everyone acts towards themselves but even if I do get my message across to just one person I will be happy as these videos really did change my view on many of the topics I have discussed and it will change yours as well. Please share this post with as many people as you possibly can as I would love to make aware of this issue to many before it does get any worse, as it is such a sad topic.
Just remember everyone is beautiful in their own way, and be yourself as everybody else is already taken!
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